I have been reading a lot about Emotional Intelligence and realizing it is an important part of passing the FBI interviews – SA and IA. (Also know as EQ/EI)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence
I believe it is how you deal with failure. Are you able to accept and re-group? Or, are do you give up.
What did you learn from the failure? How did it help you in the long run? Are you able to get back up and try again? Are you able to extend help to others who are struggling?
You might want to do a little reading about EQ – it is about how you behave in negative situations.
(roll with the punches – learn and move on – adapt – take constructive criticism as a learning experience) It’s all a part of you and your ability to “cope.”
How Emotionally Intelligent Are You? 14 signs you have high EQ.https://charterforcompassion.org/gaining-emotional-strength/how-emotionally-intelligent-are-you-here-s-how-to-tell?gclid=CjwKCAjwkenqBRBgEiwA-bZVtklrwZWdsJaReGhP4QCWcH-kW6EeMasLtyMHxtEVtggev78zUrYZBRoCySgQAvD_BwE